WOMEN

Complex beings, women I feel are extremely powerful individuals. They are clever and have the power to make things happen. If a woman uses her power wisely and constructively there is nothing really that is beyond her reach, she can reach for the stars and get them too!

On the other hand a woman who is caught in a negative quagmire of energy can be extremely destructive. Shakespeare said that 'Hell Hath No Fury As A Woman Scorned' and I completely agree. A woman who loses her focus in life and goes on a destructive rampage when hurt, cares for no-one, she cares not for the damage she does to others and herself and hence is all the more dangerous! Women can make life difficult, unhappy, for other women in subtle ways through games and subterfuge which only women (or extremely perceptive men - a .00000000001% of the male population?!!!) can understand.

Why do they do this? They do this to assuage the complexes and insecurities that they have within. If only they could ignore these petty insecurities and rise above them. If only they chose to channel this energy into the work of their choice, not only would they make themselves happier, their families happier and more proud but they would also contribute much more to the country, the economy and the world at large.

Men, who might have a lower emotional quotient and maturity in this respect, by and large, are saved in a way, as they tend to be less complicated and do not even get a whiff of the complex happenings which go on in this seemingly invisible world, and if they do get some feelers at times, choose to keep themselves away. They thus get more time and energy to focus on their work. (This apart from the fact that society by and large has been programmed to facilitate the male member in the household going out of the house to win the bread...we shall flesh out this argument another day!!!)

Why do we as women not learn, and use the power that is bestowed upon us positively towards its maximum potential instead of losing some sheen by being enmeshed in petty social politics, created & managed by womenkind. If this could only happen, if this would indeed happen, if only women in any position of power (whether at work or at home) would actually empower the women they interact with and truly empathise with the problems faced by them (if any) instead of succumbing to petty jealousies & insecurities, it would be a step forward towards making the world a happier place for women!